Hey Loes, it makes me think of the Daoist concept of Wu-wei or not-doing. As in not enforcing, more flowing with wants most naturally to be expressed, from total rest to dancing on a mountain top. And here we can see what male action is healthy, that which is part of this male. And that which is unhealthy, that of enforcing at the cost of. And once we start looking at this way, all the thousands of little ways enforcing has permeated our society is, at least to me, shocking. It ranges from not daring to speak out at work, parents pushing kids to at the least get a diploma to fit in, companies willing to greenwash, politicians using spindoctors to win votes at the cost of real issues, etc, etc.